Iwan Fals love affair with Rosana (his wife)

“Gue Seneng Sama Elo! Coba Pacaran, Yuk!


Music is life Iwan Fals. Through music, man's real name Virgiawan Listianto met her soul mate, Rosanna or who is familiarly called Josh.

     IWAN not people who are good at telling stories, especially about events that have occurred decades ago. Although a bit of his story still lingering in the mind, John was able to break down in detail the story of her love with Josh. "It's just really long. I've forgotten detail the story, "said John, opening a wide debate in his home in the village of Leuwinanggung, Cimanggis, Depok, West Java.

    Staring into the past, the father of three children try to repeat the memory of his first meeting with Josh on the campus of the Jakarta Arts Institute (IKJ), which occurred 27 years ago. At that time, John was followed Humor Music Festival held IKJ students. He performed solo guitar and harmonica playing. While Josh, a student majoring in Fine Arts at the college, was one of the festival committee.

    "I still remember being Yos wear a hat like Mr. Tino Sidin. He's a child of Fine Arts. His hat was also a lot of the flag, "recalls John, smiling. Josh's trendy appearance and tend to vibrate the strings of the heart Iwan masculine. Iwan who was still bearing the title of the third grade students of SMAN 26 Jakarta claimed to be interested to see that the figure of a woman born in 1960.

    "Glad to see he wrote like a man. Plus, since the first meeting, he was paying attention to me, "said Iwan without intending to boast. Meanwhile, Josh was secretly watching the young person who has stolen his heart by a masculine appearance. Later, Josh knew, his interest was more based on his interest in the songs of John.

    From the first, John is known as a musician song-bearer of country songs and ballads. At the festival, too, men born in Jakarta, 3 September 1961, Josh was given a piece of demo tapes containing his voice. Just three years later, John's golden voice is recorded in three albums at once, namely Pete Flower Serenade, Frustration, and the Bachelor.

    Although he likes the girl was a student, John did not feel inferior. The seeds of romance that began to emerge, he let it sprout to grow into a strand of love. "The problem with my love baseball there age limits. I see you, keep dianya seem to pay attention, I immediately just penalty; try dating yuk! Was able to run three years. Only, when asked how detailed the process of courtship, I forgot. It really has been a long time tuh, "said Iwan, who claimed to be excited when Josh's hand.

    Three-year courtship is not without obstacles. In between that time, Joshua had apparently attracted to another man. John knew it. However, the couple's son and Lies Haryoso has never lessened his love for Josh. On the other hand, John also knew Josh was still interested him. Iwan reckless apply until Joshua who was then already had a new lover.

    "I am honored when I ask him to marry, he would, but it has a boyfriend, Josh. I said: 'I can only ngamen ya. Baseball is no other way to live, dare not? 'Eh, he said boldly. That's what I made then the mandate for me to maintain our relationship. "

     Iwan given the answer 'yes' of Jos as the most beautiful of his youth. "You see, it must decide the weight to Joshua one of two men. I still go ahead even though she has a boyfriend. Where sustenance baseball. All of it depends on Josh. I just express my feelings only. I love him, I argued. I said, 'I seneng as ell!' Gitu wrote, "the story of John, who could not remember his wedding date.

Create Iwan, Josh could say his first love. In his youth, John had very little experience going out with another girl other than his wife now. Thus, when asked why he chose Joshua, a man who likes to sport karate was not able to answer.

"I know the advantages Yos baseball than other women. I never knew her baseball (female) the other. Perhaps because of my desire fulfilled in Josh. My thoughts, my feelings, my negative-positive, all fulfilled in him, "said Iwan. Now, John and Josh has 25 years of age through their marriage. John confesses his love for his wife is still the same as when the two lovers.

"I just feel, it turns out we live. Many miracles are happening every day. I myself wonder, how can it stand in 25 years when another pair of new three-year mating, divorce. I am grateful also because it was a beautiful wedding. If baseball beautiful, why get married. "

"I always said to Joshua, now I love you. Tomorrow knows baseball. Nah dare promise my dong. Hey, tomorrow tuh to 25 years, "said Iwan again.



Love The Trials That Come After Strong
John and Josh wedding runs smoothly almost without question means. Fulfilled the needs of families, children grew up healthy and prosperous. Until finally the disaster came in 1997.
YEAR, the Galang signs Anarchy, the eldest son of John and Joshua, died. The sky seemed to collapse. Galang is touted as the successor of the prince his father's footsteps, very quickly taken the Lord. When the last breath, the band's Flowers just 15 years old.
The first year of the departure of Galang, sadness was the couple's heart clung. Not infrequently, Joshua Galang dream come decorate. In fact, until Josh ngelindur. "That's the hardest trials of our lives. Fortunately I always come back to religion. I overcome this grief with a closer relationship to God, "said Josh.

If you missed the hit Galang, Joshua could only shed tears. "John does baseball say or advise me anything. Because we both read a hobby, to be reassuring, usually we both read a book. If all of a sudden my bed, ngelindur about Galang, most Iwan embraced me. Nah say anything, because if you talk to her sometimes even wrong, "said Josh.

Galang died shortly after, respectively, John also lost a father and a brother. Sense of loss came a barrage and felt very much for him. "But, I am aware, all men would have lost their loved ones," said Iwan.

Do not want to grieve over and over, John and Josh resume their lives. Until finally, Kingdom Signs Rabbani was born in 2003, when their second child, Annie signs Basae roots, aged 18 years. Raya, who later became the solace of John and Josh.
"Since baseball is no Galang, I feel closer to John. Very impressive. Same with birth berkesannya Kingdom. I felt that my presence in the world to be more useful. If it was just ngurusin Iwan continues, now I have to take care Kingdom as well, "said Josh.
"Ancestor is now large, are in college. Occasionally he likes to come home that night. Iwan rather nervous, but I would say to him that the roots will go late into the home. I see John as more responsible husband, father, and man, "said Josh.
Small changes also felt Iwan since the departure of Galang. "Lately I feel more assertive. However, the matter of religion, Josh stronger. He was always ready to fulfill all its obligations. On the other hand, I also tried to give what I got for him, "Iwan connect words of his wife. A quarter century of life together to make Josh understand the past and present Iwan Iwan although not too much change.

"Iwan Iwan remains that I know. Physically he's changed, but it's certainly experienced all of those. Add age, she is more mature and patient with any problems. Calamity in the family we always return to religious values. That's what makes us believe, it is best to deal with all issues, "said Josh.
"These days we often have a common feeling instead. In the early first marriage, baseball often disjointed, one might expect, different guesses. Now it starts there are similarities. Moreover, after Galang go, "said Iwan. This year John will reach the age of 44 years. However, the chairman of the Indonesian People of mass organizations (OI) that still feel young. Physical changes second by second man, he enjoyed as a beauty.
"Indeed I am more curious. In age by now, I like sluggish. Well, after a sluggish phase, what are ya? Apparently, the attention of Joshua also not changed. He could make me more curious, "said Iwan, without detailing the things that intrigued him. "I kept the same excited Josh. Hopefully he is too. I always feel old, despite being newly married. Happy wrote became. Kayak courtship continues, "said Iwan again.
Despite the courage to express his feelings in Jos, but in attitude, Iwan not as romantic as his love song-song. Dinner together under temaran candlelight, for example, even if they never do. Love in the hearts of both were nurtured by the attention and confidence high against the couple.
"Our love grows so it does. Alhamdulillahnya again, I do not have economic problems. Sometimes it's also needed money. Household, too. We have only sustenance, so that we baseball loss for daily needs, "said Iwan, who handed over all his household affairs to Josh.
In addition to the equation, Josh and John also have different natures. John is impressed temperamental and explosive in making songs, was quite gentle demeanor. In fact, not infrequently, he is being spoiled on his wife. "Back when I nyuapin Galang and roots, he asked disuapin miss baseball. Anyway, he tuh including a husband who is always asking to be served. Iwan also soft. If we are more angry, which ngebanting door, so to speak, it's me. John even more silent when angry, "said Josh.

Respect each other if Jealous Pet

Living with a superstar like John is not easy. Especially when the phenomenon of groupies, fans groups, women increasingly are mushrooming. Jealousy increases when Jos saw Iwan aggressive female fans.

IWAN was actually jealous of guy. He was not trying to dismiss those feelings by pretending to be indifferent to the couple. Jealous, jealous says. Even then he had a big fight with his wife. "I'm jealous, jealous as well Yos. But, I can respect her jealousy. It turned out really fun too jealous. There is a sense excited him, he, he, he ..., "said Iwan.

John is not unaware of his female fans a lot and there are even more demanding of him. However, so far he admits that they can control their emotions. Occasionally had also occurred to sports enthusiasts of karate's desire polygamy. Unfortunately, Josh did not allow.
"Sometimes it's also occurred. Especially if you see a beautiful woman, young, well .... Yesterday I was just saying, Jos-be baseball ngelirik lyrics female? Turned out to be the same baseball to him, "joked John. Expression of honest John to share his heart with another woman may be just a joke for the day, it felt to her love for growing Yos. John realized that female beauty is not everything.

"Beauty is not seen from any physical really. If the size is just that, how many beautiful women? Beauty was there behind the crease, from the bones start to hurt, or the situation before the menopause. It's also a miracle and should be grateful. What I got from Josh was more than enough, "said the musician who spent his school years in Bandung, West Java.

There was no specific argument that is applied Iwan, keeping the love for his wife's flower still blooms of all time. Like the lyrics of the song, John would prefer to let all flow like water, without any grandiose promises. "Just how do we water the seeds that God is love. This is our field, baseball can we care? Boredom and I am sure there must be Yos were bored with me. However, we accept it as a blessing just boredom. If quoted Aa Gym, as a farm family make our charity, "said Iwan wise.

At the age of the evening, John actually looks more handsome. This assessment is often raised by his fans. In response, Josh can only give thanks. So even when female fans Iwan apply a little tender on the musician.

"Arguably disturbed, certainly piqued. But baseball's okay. Thank God because I was given a meaningful opportunity with John and he was not tempted, "said the veiled woman. Josh hopes, trials of a third person who could potentially damage their households are not going to happen. Fortunately again, Josh is now also acting as manager Iwan. So, to go wherever her husband, Josh must accompany.

"With her assist in the management team, I became more understanding. If it used to be my home, come Iwan baseball. I have always had a mind of its own, 'he wah ya what are you doing?' Because now my manager, John goes wherever I go. If there are female fans melukin him, I could see with my own eyes. I see how he reacts. If Iwan kecentilan, my immediate return of labrak. But, if John can not get in a position to refuse, I still understand it, "said Josh.

Josh believes Iwan faithful to her. Likewise, because the couple who married in Garut, West Java, was admitted, the same fear of the Lord. "We've got five daily prayers. At noon, we did something good, there are occasions Asr time to give forgiveness, and begged a clue how I should behave after this, "said Joshua, who admit to being open to Iwan.

In the eyes of Joshua, that husband John was not able to be romantic, like the stories in movies or soap operas. Iwan more romantic version superekstra attention refers to the pair. "For me, John is very romantic, but do not like the book or movie. For example, he again toured the music. On the sidelines of his schedule, he still likes to remind me to keep them healthy. 'Lo do not hurt ya'. For me, it's so romantic, "explained Josh.

In response to a second puberty Iwan, Josh also had a surefire recipe. "The key, do not leave prayer. If puberty, he's definitely talking about the other woman dong. If it were so, I can only show that I love baseball. But, not wear grumble grumble-lo, "said Joshua, who was one year older than her husband.

Iwan then chimed in his wife's speech with a hope that no-embroider diembel sky-high dreams. "Hopefully, our family remains intact. Yes ..., baseball knows really. Love's mysteries. I happen to Islamic belief, in which the spaces open to polygamy is wide enough. But if baseball allowed Yos, it can not get, "he said

 

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